There are two ways to define the mass of an object as shown below:
The amount of matter or material inside an object depends on the number of atoms and the kind of atoms that compose the object.
Something can be small and yet it may have a lot of matter inside of it. For example, a gold bar could have a mass of 2 kg
A loaf of bread could be about the same size or even bigger than the gold bar. However, the loaf of bread can be less massive than the gold bar.
Mass is also a measure of the inertia or " laziness" that an object exhibits when you try to move it or stop it from moving.
The higher the mass, the harder it will be to move or stop the object. It is easier to push a dog than it is to push an elephant!
The elephant has more inertia or more "laziness" than the dog. We are not saying that the elephant is lazy. What we mean by more "laziness" is that it will be harder to move the elephant.
When you step onto a scale, the number that you see is a measure of your mass, not your weight.